socialization in homeschooling

Socialization in Homeschooling: Building Social Skills Outside the Classroom

One of the most common homeschool stereotypes is that homeschooled children are not well-socialized. However, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Let’s explore socialization in homeschooling and how to build social skills outside of the classroom.

Debunking the Socialization Myth

Many people think that homeschooler’s social interactions are limited and that they aren’t able to spend time with other kids as much as those in public schools. Homeschooled students may spend most of their time at home, but this doesn’t mean they don’t receive social development. Let’s debunk the socialization myth. 

First, being social means more than just playing with kids your age. It’s about learning to get along with everyone, understanding the rules of behavior, and figuring out your place in the world. Homeschooled kids do this, too, in different ways than kids in regular schools.

Researchers have looked into this and found that homeschooled kids are doing just fine socially. In fact, homeschoolers scored higher than those who attend conventional schools in their overall social skills! They join sports teams, take part in groups like scouts, and help out in their communities. These activities let them meet many different people and learn how to make friends and work with others. Homeschooled kids often spend time with people of all ages, not just kids their age. This helps them learn how to talk to adults and younger kids in a respectful and understanding way. Plus, their families can choose who they hang out with, ensuring they have positive and helpful friendships.

Also, being homeschooled means kids might spend more time with their families. This helps them learn essential life skills like getting along with others and being a good friend and family member. In the end, homeschooled kids usually become good at talking to and understanding people of all ages. They’re involved in their communities and know how to be part of a team. So, the idea that they’re simply missing out on social interactions isn’t accurate. They’re learning all the essential social skills they need, just in a different way.

Strategies for Socialization in Homeschooling

As a homeschool parent, you have a unique chance to plan out how your children learn to interact with others. There are many extracurricular activities to ensure your child can interact with peers and learn critical social skills. Let’s look at some strategies that can help. 

Joining Clubs and Teams

Just because a kid is homeschooled doesn’t mean they can’t be part of a team. Sports, drama clubs, music bands, or any other group activity are great places to meet friends and learn to work together. Still trying to figure out where to start? Take a look at the community board at your local library. 

Finding Homeschool Groups

Many places have groups for homeschooled kids to do activities together, go on field trips, or learn new things. It’s like being in school but with kids who also learn at home. You can often find these homeschool groups through your local homeschool Facebook page/group. 


Helping out in the community is an excellent way for homeschooled kids to meet a wide range of people and make a difference. It could be anything from helping at an animal shelter, planting trees, or helping at local events.

Educational Trips

Learning isn’t just for the home. Going on trips to museums, historical sites, or science centers is fun and lets homeschooled kids meet others with similar interests.

Special Interest Clubs

Whether it’s a book club, a coding workshop, or a science camp, joining clubs that focus on something they’re really into helps kids meet others who like the same things. It’s a great way to make friends.

Hanging Out

Yes, good old playdates and hangouts still work wonders. Inviting friends, going to the park, or having a movie night are simple but effective ways to keep kids connected and having fun with others.

Overcoming Challenges in Socialization

Even though there are many ways for homeschooled kids to make friends and learn social skills, sometimes families face challenges. Here are some common ones and ideas on how to fix them:

Finding the Right Activities

Sometimes, it can be tough to find clubs or groups that fit a kid’s interests or comfort zone. 


Don’t give up! Keep looking, and try different things. You might find something perfect where you least expect it. Also, asking other homeschooling families what they do can lead to some great discoveries.

Busy Schedules

Families often juggle many things at once, and adding social activities might feel overwhelming.


Planning ahead can help a lot. Look at your week or month and see where you can fit in social activities without stressing out. Remember, quality is more important than quantity. Even a couple of well-chosen activities can make a big difference.

Shyness or Social Anxiety

Some kids might feel nervous or anxious about meeting new people or being in new situations. 


Start small. Choose activities that aren’t too overwhelming and have a familiar element, like a small book club or a one-on-one playdate. Gradually, as confidence grows, bigger groups might become less intimidating.

Accessibility Issues

Sometimes, the right activities might not be nearby, or getting there is a hassle. 


Look for online groups or classes that focus on interests your child has. This can be a great way to meet friends and learn new things from home. Also, starting your own local group can attract others to you!

Safety Concerns

Parents might worry about their kids’ safety when they’re out at events or activities, especially if they’re not there to supervise.


Get to know the adults who run the activities, and stay involved as much as possible. For online activities, use safe, monitored platforms designed for kids.

By tackling these challenges head-on, homeschooled kids can have rich and fulfilling social lives. Remember, every child is different, so what works for one might not work for another. The key is to keep trying and adjusting until you find the perfect mix of activities that helps your child thrive socially.

Are you looking for a STEM education?

As we move into the 21st century, STEM subjects are becoming essential for students to learn. Getting familiar with technology and learning to use and create it opens a wide field of jobs. Here at 21stCentEd Homeschool, we are passionate about helping young people prepare for a bright future in which their STEM skills will help them find relevant jobs in this digital age.

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